Tuesday, January 25, 2011

两人在一起,必须要有一个会忍;我想和你好好的。

如果两个人想好好的在一起,必须有一个人特别特别会忍。



那些难过、那些委屈。我很想说,其实我都懂。



我们不是每天都像看起来的那么开心。我们都有很累的时候。一个人在黑黑的夜里。被冷冷的风吹。孤单的。



我要你开开心心。即使再难过。当想起有个人在默默的陪伴你。即使是在很远很远的地方。



多想是你和我一起吃饭。只要开开心心的。哪怕是路边摊也可以吃的满足。手牵手,快快乐乐的压马路。



我要的,在我难过的时候,什么话都可以给那个你说。一句亲爱的,别难过,你还有我。心里的难过就会好很多很多。因为我知道,有个人在我的身后,默默的陪伴我。



我要的,在我孤单的时候,有个人给我发发信息,让我听听你的声音。这对我来说,比什么有趣的书,好玩的游戏都重要,都欣慰。因为我知道,有个人,虽然不经常见面、陪我,但心里却一直挂念着我。



我要的,一声叮嘱、一声关爱,一句问候。吃饭了么?饿了么?累了么?其实,对我都是珍贵的、暖暖的。我发誓永远都不会嫌这样的话语啰嗦、麻烦。一句我们在一起,什么困难我都能抗下去。其实,在我心里都会荡漾出最幸福的涟漪。



我不要温柔的甜言蜜语、不要海枯石烂的誓言。我要的,只是一个紧紧的无声拥抱;只是要一只能牢牢牵住我的、不会随便丢掉的手。



我不要你每一分钟都陪我。你也有你的生活,我不想干涉你太多。我要的,只是你能够相信我,说的出就能做的到的行动。温暖着我的心底,充满着幸福的滋味。



很多感触、很多感动。我都放在了我的心里慢慢回味。一条关怀的短信、一声电话骚扰。其实,都是我在想你的表现。你懂吗?我想要的,仅此而已。未来的未来,未知未觉。迷茫的彷徨,期待的不可预知。没有信誓旦旦,没有笃信和永远的保证。一双手,暖暖的牵着。食指,牢牢的交叉。



我们不吵、不闹,就这样简单的过着。我希望可以公平点。喜欢你是不可改变的,爱你是不可预料的。



叶子,总是飘飘然。它总是飘忽不定的。但我们的感情却很坚定。我相信,我可以坚持,坚持到你不爱的最后一秒。



我不要你说我爱你,我想你说我们在一起。我不相信爱情,我相信你。

看完后你有什么感受?

Monday, January 17, 2011

We must learn how to love ourself

Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror and cringed at the image of yourself? If you are guilty of this practice then I would advice you to stop. If you are not happy with yourself, it indicates that you are having no confidence of yourself. If you lack confidence in yourself, then how do you expect others to have confidence in you?


Many people, old or young have insecurities about various things in their lives. It could of their physical appearances, speech, lifestyle, habits, work or even family.

Even at interviews, confidence helps you in clinching that job. Imagine a scenario where two candidates go for the interview where one is confident and assured while the other is a nervous wreck. No prizes for guessing who impresses the interviewer and gets the job.


First of all, you have to understand that confidence can be gained if you try. Of course nobody becomes super confident overnight. It takes time to become confident but it is undeniable that everyone can be confident if they try.


The following are ways where you can help yourself in getting confident
1. Like yourself

The first step in becoming more confident is to accept and like yourself. You should make a list of all your positive traits and strengths on a piece of paper or in your diary. By doing this, you are reminding yourself that you too have praise-worthy qualities like others. You will like yourself and feel confident about yourself after this.


2. Attend Seminars

It is good if you attend seminars where professional speakers offer you tips and guidance on gaining confidence. During the speech, you can even pick up tips on public speaking from the speakers by watching their body language and the way they project themselves.


3. Motivate yourself

Whether it is for an interview or for a presentation, tell yourself that you can do it. Motivate yourself each day and soon you will find your confidence level growing. Another good way for motivation is that after work or study each day you should make a list of at least four things that you did well for that day.


4. Overcome fears

Some people always have a fear that they can never be successful in anything they do. Such insecurity will be a disadvantage and would cause you to lack confidence in yourself and in everything you do in your life. So in order for you to get rid of this fear you have to remind yourself that if you haven’t try something you can never say that you will fail in it. Be positive and try things without any fear or insecurity. For example at work your boss is asking you to head a team but you fear that you will make a mess out of it. Such a fear will prevent you from taking on that task at work. But if you were a confident person you wouldn’t think twice about failing and would gladly take on that task. This shows that a lack of confidence could also affect your career.



5. Accept Failures

If you are always crying over the mistakes that you made in your life, you will never get anywhere. Always remember that past mistakes and failures cannot be reversed and what’s done is done. Thus it is no use crying over spilt milk. A confident individual always looks past those failures in his life. After all, failures are juts part and parcel of becoming successful. If you failed once you should take that failure as a learning lesson.

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Marriage Counselor

A couple's communication patterns are always explored in an effort to make positive changes. You may be asking, why is communication so important? A good marriage, it is often said, is not one without problems; it's one that can work through the problems. And this is where communication plays an important role. If a couple does not know how to navigate peacefully through a conflict, and rather tends to avoid it or perhaps gets into heated power struggles, nothing gets resolved, resentment builds, and repairs are never made. John Gottman, who collected decades worth of data on marriage and relationships, identified through his research that the lack of adequate repair following an argument is the biggest contributor to marital unhappiness and divorce. Marriage Counselors know that one of the first steps in improving a relationship is to teach a couple how to regulate their emotions, stay calm, and use healthy communication skills so that new problems and old problems can finally be resolved. Of course, it can take months if not years for a couple to heal, recover, and again feel emotionally close to each other.



Marriage Counseling is often held one time a week. But, depending on whether you are also doing any adjunctive healing work, such as individual therapy or group, the sessions may be more or less often, depending on your therapy goals. Marriage Counseling is offered in a wide variety of settings including private practices, university counseling centers, and group practices.

娶个发脾气的女人才会白头到老

永远不会发脾气的女人就如同一杯白开水--解渴,却无味。

你迟到,她向你发脾气,是因为她紧张你,她怕你出了什么意外。

你抽烟,她向你发脾气,是因为她担心你的身体健康。

你喝酒,她向你发脾气,是因为她担心你酒醉后没有人照顾,感觉到孤单,更怕你在酒吧会出什么事,留下她一个人,她希望跟你长长久久,白头到老。

你身上被发现有别的女人香,她向你发脾气,是因为她在乎你,你是她的所有,她不想跟别人分亨你。

你忘记她的生日,她向你发脾气,是因为她对你有所期待,她并不会要求一个陌生人记住她的生日。

女人是最讲理的动物,她的脾气往往导因于各式各样的理由。

女人也是最不讲理的动物,她的理由经常令人无法理解。

女人可以为了一件小得不能再小的事,发一场大得不能再大的脾气。

因为女人对身边的男人有所要求,有所期望,所以常常会失望;失落。 因此,女人容易对男人发脾气。

身边有个会向你发脾气的女人,其实是一件多么幸福的事!

而身边有一个会让自己发脾气的男人,是对女人最大的折磨,也是莫大的幸福。



珍惜你身边那个爱生气的女人,因为会发脾气的女人最可爱~



假如有一天,她不再为你生气……



那她就已经不再爱你 。

by 静贤

Monday, January 10, 2011

My Dream Bridal gown

Sydney Fun September 2010

Yeah, finally we are able to gather lat lei together and travel to Sydney and Melbourne. Hui bring us to this place. We can see the bridge clearly. view from up hill.. Both of christine and brian keep taking photos.....
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Sunday, January 9, 2011

My Dream bridal shoe from Raymond Wong





I have just ordered a pair of bridal shoe from raymond, shoe designer. Same as above, but i choose a little pinky color. Close to ivory, but a bit pink.

Very excited to see hows the quality. He told me that it gonna be full leather. wooo...hope it will be comfortable.

I will definately show u what is the actual shoe looks like...:) Cant wait to see that...

my birthday present 2010

So happy that i received this present 2 days before my birthday. haha...never expect my hb will buy me a coach bag....





My workplace

Canice wedding 1.12.2010